well i know what i want lol i just would like to be treated like a gentlemen and would treat them as gentlemen as well unless they say other wise
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Thank you very much cub your a sweet heart now if i would just work on my context clues when i read then i would understand that you were talking to Mikey.
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I often get teased for my taste in men. I will sometimes joke back that sometimes you just aren't in the mood for tofu and steamed veggies. Sometimes, you're in the mood for a Big Mac or Whopper.
I can't help but think of that when I see your screen name. lol
Given that I simply don't approach people, I don't know what to tell you, Bigmac. I do know, however, how I'd want to be approached. Someone telling me they are interested, but not being completely blunt about it. You know...
"Hi, would you be interested in doing something with me sometime?"
That said, apparently I'm rather dense to this. The one time this happened, I didn't realize what it was. I even had to ASK what it was... And still, even though they outright told me it was a date, it kinda went over my head.
oh lol its fair enough thats actually a nick name one of my friends gave me for being a big guy haha. i have to be honest im not really much of a veggie or tofu guy im a carnivore love my steak well nai i appreciate your feed back lol im glad i joined this clan if not just for the acceptance but for all the friendly wonderful people
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well actually let me reword this question cuz that may have been a little quick to plunge in. I think a better way to say it is how do you let other guys know your interested im a newbie lol so i have curiositys and dont know were to start thanks in advance guys.
All there is to this is you have to refine your style. You aren't born with this, so you'll have to figure out what works best for you.
The best piece of advice I can give you is you have to be confident. I'm a big girl, so I know how hard it can be to have this, especially if you're made fun of. I'm not saying this is your case, but if you have low self-esteem or confidence issues, people will see it and it will turn them off of you.
Case in point: I have known my fiancee for 13 years. I loved him the moment I met him. He did not feel the same way. 10 years later, I started hanging out with a girl who was...not as pretty as I am, I'll just say that, and she was big, too. But she had confidence, and guys were into her all the time. She taught me that big IS beautiful, and that boosted my confidence. Less than a year later, he was mine.
Well saying nothing won't get you anywhere but I'm the kind that is very blunt as well and yeah it's not working for me. Some people prefer it but some people don't. You could get lucky and find the person that responds to that kind of brass or you could try maybe mellowing out a little bit and see if you get the vibe that they're interested. Who knows lol. Guys are a mystery.
Who's with me in saying this is the BIGGEST understatement in the world!
Love you, blue!
Chris, doesn't know her, She's my gf, 1 month today. She's amazing. You'd love her. Everyone would
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I agree. 3.5 FTW, didnt know you guys played DND too. Who has all the books on their comp? I'd like to compare our collections XD!
red_0mega, my fiancee, has all of them on the computer. I'm not sure if it's just all 3.5 or all period, but I think it's all period.
I know he has the Player's Handbook for 4 and he wasn't impressed at all.
So my ex (I think, last I checked, we were on a break, whatever that means) kicked his brother out of his house (after the winner stole $3000+ from my ex's line of credit and then stole all his depression meds to snort) and now he has his gay friend moving in.
My feelings are confusing.
Understandably so, dear. So, you say "his gay friend". Is this a platonic partnership? Are you thinking that it is now, but may not remain so?
If he's his gay friend and nothing more, this will likely be a good thing for you. That guy can help him with his day-to-day issues, and having that type of support could make it where he's ready to try out the relationship with you again. I just have a gut feeling that the two of you are not done forever, honey, so I'm trying to help you keep your chin up.
Given that I simply don't approach people, I don't know what to tell you, Bigmac. I do know, however, how I'd want to be approached. Someone telling me they are interested, but not being completely blunt about it. You know...
"Hi, would you be interested in doing something with me sometime?"
That said, apparently I'm rather dense to this. The one time this happened, I didn't realize what it was. I even had to ASK what it was... And still, even though they outright told me it was a date, it kinda went over my head.
OMG, how cute are you? You got asked out on a date and didn't realize it? Did you go to said date? How did it go?
Also, how's it going in The Big Easy? Is it hot? I'll bet it is. It's hot as hell here this week.
It's decent here. I've been inside most of the week, but that's going to change today. Gonna be getting my bike fixed up and riding around. Perhaps go to Boomtown (a local casino) to check out their family fun center and the arcade it has. But that doesn't open for another 7 hours.
Today it's currently around 80 degrees. That's at 8 am. It'll probably get hotter. But it's been rather decent if you don't go out in the height of the day.
As for that date... Not well. See... She asked me out. I didn't realize exactly what she was asking. Questioned it. And she said outright yes, it's a date. And that... Went right over my head. So I said yes. Re-realized it DURING said date... Which didn't bother me too much until she was holding my hand and leaning against me. And then... Well, I opened my mouth, and it went downhill.
Yeah, it's about the same here. However, it's really sad when you walk outside your house in Texas and realize that it's cooler outside than it is in the house. Gah, I hate my house!
Anyway, Nai, sounds like you need to refine your style as well, honey. I wonder why it took you so by surprise to be asked out? Because that sounds to be what happened.
I've told you before and I'll tell you again - you will find someone. You're gonna have to be prepared when that happens.
Luckily I have a good AC unit. Keeps the room between 64 and 72, depending on the time of day.
And it was several things. I thought we were just friends, that she was interested in someone else, etc. etc. And, you know, me not thinking that I was worth being asked out. It was also the end of a long day and she approached me as a manager, not a coworker or co-ed.
And, you know, me not thinking that I was worth being asked out. [/I]
This is complete and utter bull☺☺☺☺ and I wish you'd realize that. I know you say that I don't REALLY know who you are, and you're right. I don't. But, if you can act the way you do when we chat (funny, intelligent, caring, etc...) then your real personality can't be too much different.
Well, I suppose it could, but I really don't think it will be. And, if I'm picking out the right person on your FB pics, you're a cutie patootie, too.
You're not, you're a liar, you have bad taste, you're looking at the wrong person, etc. etc.
So, I just learned that Blue Man Group (possibly my favorite band ever) is going to be in Denver in December. I hope they'll be down here, too, or I'll be pissed.
Edit: And even though my family has a ton of dogs, I'm so tempted to go and look into a local humane society to see if there's one for me.
You're not, you're a liar, you have bad taste, you're looking at the wrong person, etc. etc.
I can promise you the underlined portion is not the case. I have no reason to lie, ever.
So, I just learned that Blue Man Group (possibly my favorite band ever) is going to be in Denver in December. I hope they'll be down here, too, or I'll be pissed.
If they're touring, then they'll likely at least come to Dallas. Road trip!
Edit: And even though my family has a ton of dogs, I'm so tempted to go and look into a local humane society to see if there's one for me.
Hey, those puppies need good homes, and you've got one you can give them. I say go for it.
This is interesting. I've been watching Animal Planet. And at least two shows in a row have featured gay/lesbian people. They don't ever outright say it (the most they'll say is 'this is my girlfriend', which can JUST mean 'friend' in this day and age), but it's rather obvious.
I'm curious. These are back-to-back. It wouldn't have caught my eye if they weren't. I'm wondering what the point of that was.
You're not, you're a liar, you have bad taste, you're looking at the wrong person, etc. etc.
So, I just learned that Blue Man Group (possibly my favorite band ever) is going to be in Denver in December. I hope they'll be down here, too, or I'll be pissed.
Edit: And even though my family has a ton of dogs, I'm so tempted to go and look into a local humane society to see if there's one for me.
Oh how well do I know THIS feeling. It wasn't until the week that I left for Washington DC to visit Casey that I realized I was attractive even if it wasn't by my own definition of what I find hot. This is a hard lesson to learn and there's no textbook answer or training method to get people to understand they're attractive. The main sticking point for me was, "So what if I'm not as hot as you? I'm still more attractive than you ;)"
"So what if I'm not as hot as you? I'm still more attractive than you ;)"
QFT. Seriously, physical appearance has sooo very little to do with how attractive a person is. You can be as hot as you can, but if you're an ☺☺☺☺☺☺☺, I have no interest in you.
Personally, I am a blunt flirt and like that quality in someone else. As long as somebody doesn't cross the line and say, drop their pants and ask if I'm thirsty. There is a difference between open/honest and crass.
So my ex (I think, last I checked, we were on a break, whatever that means) kicked his brother out of his house (after the winner stole $3000+ from my ex's line of credit and then stole all his depression meds to snort) and now he has his gay friend moving in.
My feelings are confusing.
Confusing as in "why didn't he ask me to move in?" In which case I'd say, would you really want to move in under those circumstances? If you two get back together long-term, it should be because you're both ready. Moving in together because he's in the middle of an epic ****storm doesn't exactly spell s-t-a-b-i-l-i-t-y.
On the other hand, if he starts sleeping with this guy then you need to be done with him for good.
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Word, sister. I can't even count how many guys I've thought were so sexy until I got to know them. And there's been quite a few people I've not been attracted to but became friends with and, while I still might not find them "hot" I'm like, "hell yeah, I'd hit that".
This is soooo coming back to haunt you in a mafia game.
Win.
Word, sister. I can't even count how many guys I've thought were so sexy until I got to know them. And there's been quite a few people I've not been attracted to but became friends with and, while I still might not find them "hot" I'm like, "hell yeah, I'd hit that".
Confusing as in "why didn't he ask me to move in?" In which case I'd say, would you really want to move in under those circumstances? If you two get back together long-term, it should be because you're both ready. Moving in together because he's in the middle of an epic ****storm doesn't exactly spell s-t-a-b-l-i-t-y.
On the other hand, if he starts sleeping with this guy then you need to be done with him for good.
QFT
This is soooo coming back to haunt you in a mafia game.
Hey, lying is expected in mafia, my good man.
Word, sister. I can't even count how many guys I've thought were so sexy until I got to know them. And there's been quite a few people I've not been attracted to but became friends with and, while I still might not find them "hot" I'm like, "hell yeah, I'd hit that".
Hey, I think the cutest guys on the face of the earth are nerds because, 9 times out of 10, they're the sweetest, most thoughtful people you'll find.
well i guess there is a lot you can miss when you sleep for 10 hours lol any way i have to say i agree with Amanda i like my guys a little nerdy. Fun fact did you know cigarettes have all the nutrition of meal...well not really but since im a smoker im inclined to lie for the tobacco companies i love.
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BTW, just letting you know my phone's going to be off until Friday morning. Gotta pay the bill when I get paid.
Man, I gotta sell that damn phone! Why do I have to be so busy all the time?
!!! how are we supposed to talk about our Gaymer Mafia or figure out who's scum in The Stand mafia! Life OVER! (If you message my aim account it goes to my phone btw)
What? From your phone!? Get a new monitor so you can make use of the internet at home or just get rid of the internet at home for a while so you can afford a new monitor.
Meh, The stand is slow to start anyways. Well...any game I'm not in is slow to start cuz there's not someone who posts 100 times before most people have 20 -_-
Hrm. I don't like rejection >_< Talked to this guy at a restaurant and asked him if he wanted to hang out some time and he was like, "uh...uh. Um... well.. I'm... I work 50 hour work weeks and I live in Dallas so....so I usually hang out there so. So yeah. See ya round here sometime though!"
Im sorry to hear that blue thats lame man and btw what is the mafia game i havent heard of it?
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Mafia is a game of intrigue, lies, and psychology.
Long story short:
In a group of players, two different types of roles are distributed. "Townies" and "Scum", at a ratio of roughly 3 townie to 1 scum. Scum know who each other are, but townie doesn't know who anyone else is. By day, the townies use a majority vote to decide who to 'lynch', killing them off and revealing their role, attempting to kill the 'scum', or mafia. The Mafia, at night (which comes after the lynch) choose one player to kill per night.
Now, if the townies kill all the scum, they win! But if the scum kill all the town (or, at least, to a point where there's only one town for each scum), the scum win.
And the way you decide who to vote and/or nightkill? Pure speech, deduction, and psychology. Townies decide who they think are scum by looking for things like Freudian slips, catching people in lies, etc. Building cases, like prosecutors, simply on what the person has said during the game. The scum look for the most observant town to kill them off.
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Oh, I was talking about Mikey's ex Bigmac. Some people just have a knack for filling their own lives with as much confusion as possible.
As for you, I would happily treat you with chivalry good sir.
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I often get teased for my taste in men. I will sometimes joke back that sometimes you just aren't in the mood for tofu and steamed veggies. Sometimes, you're in the mood for a Big Mac or Whopper.
I can't help but think of that when I see your screen name. lol
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"Hi, would you be interested in doing something with me sometime?"
That said, apparently I'm rather dense to this. The one time this happened, I didn't realize what it was. I even had to ASK what it was... And still, even though they outright told me it was a date, it kinda went over my head.
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All there is to this is you have to refine your style. You aren't born with this, so you'll have to figure out what works best for you.
The best piece of advice I can give you is you have to be confident. I'm a big girl, so I know how hard it can be to have this, especially if you're made fun of. I'm not saying this is your case, but if you have low self-esteem or confidence issues, people will see it and it will turn them off of you.
Case in point: I have known my fiancee for 13 years. I loved him the moment I met him. He did not feel the same way. 10 years later, I started hanging out with a girl who was...not as pretty as I am, I'll just say that, and she was big, too. But she had confidence, and guys were into her all the time. She taught me that big IS beautiful, and that boosted my confidence. Less than a year later, he was mine.
Who's with me in saying this is the BIGGEST understatement in the world!
Love you, blue!
Congrats!
red_0mega, my fiancee, has all of them on the computer. I'm not sure if it's just all 3.5 or all period, but I think it's all period.
I know he has the Player's Handbook for 4 and he wasn't impressed at all.
Understandably so, dear. So, you say "his gay friend". Is this a platonic partnership? Are you thinking that it is now, but may not remain so?
If he's his gay friend and nothing more, this will likely be a good thing for you. That guy can help him with his day-to-day issues, and having that type of support could make it where he's ready to try out the relationship with you again. I just have a gut feeling that the two of you are not done forever, honey, so I'm trying to help you keep your chin up.
You can tell me to STFU if you want.
/barn completely Mikey. Completely.
OMG, how cute are you? You got asked out on a date and didn't realize it? Did you go to said date? How did it go?
Also, how's it going in The Big Easy? Is it hot? I'll bet it is. It's hot as hell here this week.
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Today it's currently around 80 degrees. That's at 8 am. It'll probably get hotter. But it's been rather decent if you don't go out in the height of the day.
As for that date... Not well. See... She asked me out. I didn't realize exactly what she was asking. Questioned it. And she said outright yes, it's a date. And that... Went right over my head. So I said yes. Re-realized it DURING said date... Which didn't bother me too much until she was holding my hand and leaning against me. And then... Well, I opened my mouth, and it went downhill.
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Anyway, Nai, sounds like you need to refine your style as well, honey. I wonder why it took you so by surprise to be asked out? Because that sounds to be what happened.
I've told you before and I'll tell you again - you will find someone. You're gonna have to be prepared when that happens.
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And it was several things. I thought we were just friends, that she was interested in someone else, etc. etc. And, you know, me not thinking that I was worth being asked out. It was also the end of a long day and she approached me as a manager, not a coworker or co-ed.
And psh. I'll never be prepared for that.
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This is complete and utter bull☺☺☺☺ and I wish you'd realize that. I know you say that I don't REALLY know who you are, and you're right. I don't. But, if you can act the way you do when we chat (funny, intelligent, caring, etc...) then your real personality can't be too much different.
Well, I suppose it could, but I really don't think it will be. And, if I'm picking out the right person on your FB pics, you're a cutie patootie, too.
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So, I just learned that Blue Man Group (possibly my favorite band ever) is going to be in Denver in December. I hope they'll be down here, too, or I'll be pissed.
Edit: And even though my family has a ton of dogs, I'm so tempted to go and look into a local humane society to see if there's one for me.
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I can promise you the underlined portion is not the case. I have no reason to lie, ever.
If they're touring, then they'll likely at least come to Dallas. Road trip!
Hey, those puppies need good homes, and you've got one you can give them. I say go for it.
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I'm curious. These are back-to-back. It wouldn't have caught my eye if they weren't. I'm wondering what the point of that was.
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Oh how well do I know THIS feeling. It wasn't until the week that I left for Washington DC to visit Casey that I realized I was attractive even if it wasn't by my own definition of what I find hot. This is a hard lesson to learn and there's no textbook answer or training method to get people to understand they're attractive. The main sticking point for me was, "So what if I'm not as hot as you? I'm still more attractive than you ;)"
QFT. Seriously, physical appearance has sooo very little to do with how attractive a person is. You can be as hot as you can, but if you're an ☺☺☺☺☺☺☺, I have no interest in you.
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That's actually happened to me. True story.
Confusing as in "why didn't he ask me to move in?" In which case I'd say, would you really want to move in under those circumstances? If you two get back together long-term, it should be because you're both ready. Moving in together because he's in the middle of an epic ****storm doesn't exactly spell s-t-a-b-i-l-i-t-y.
On the other hand, if he starts sleeping with this guy then you need to be done with him for good.
This is soooo coming back to haunt you in a mafia game.
Word, sister. I can't even count how many guys I've thought were so sexy until I got to know them. And there's been quite a few people I've not been attracted to but became friends with and, while I still might not find them "hot" I'm like, "hell yeah, I'd hit that".
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Win.
You don't say
Why does this not surprise me? lol
QFT
Hey, lying is expected in mafia, my good man.
Hey, I think the cutest guys on the face of the earth are nerds because, 9 times out of 10, they're the sweetest, most thoughtful people you'll find.
And they're generally not really hot.
BTW, just letting you know my phone's going to be off until Friday morning. Gotta pay the bill when I get paid.
Man, I gotta sell that damn phone! Why do I have to be so busy all the time?
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!!! how are we supposed to talk about our Gaymer Mafia or figure out who's scum in The Stand mafia! Life OVER! (If you message my aim account it goes to my phone btw)
It's less than 48 hours away, man. It'll be alright. Promise.
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Meh, The stand is slow to start anyways. Well...any game I'm not in is slow to start cuz there's not someone who posts 100 times before most people have 20 -_-
Hrm. I don't like rejection >_< Talked to this guy at a restaurant and asked him if he wanted to hang out some time and he was like, "uh...uh. Um... well.. I'm... I work 50 hour work weeks and I live in Dallas so....so I usually hang out there so. So yeah. See ya round here sometime though!"
Psh. Blarg.
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Long story short:
In a group of players, two different types of roles are distributed. "Townies" and "Scum", at a ratio of roughly 3 townie to 1 scum. Scum know who each other are, but townie doesn't know who anyone else is. By day, the townies use a majority vote to decide who to 'lynch', killing them off and revealing their role, attempting to kill the 'scum', or mafia. The Mafia, at night (which comes after the lynch) choose one player to kill per night.
Now, if the townies kill all the scum, they win! But if the scum kill all the town (or, at least, to a point where there's only one town for each scum), the scum win.
And the way you decide who to vote and/or nightkill? Pure speech, deduction, and psychology. Townies decide who they think are scum by looking for things like Freudian slips, catching people in lies, etc. Building cases, like prosecutors, simply on what the person has said during the game. The scum look for the most observant town to kill them off.
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