16 now, cool. 14 always seemed to young. It has been my absolute cut off age for as long as I can remember. I cannot recall a single 14 or 15 year old I would concider bedable or even mature enough to make that decision, but I meet alot of 16 year olds who I would place that responsibility on.
This probably will help you none, since by your first post we are two very different personality types, but I would pound the family friend into the ground first, ask questions second. I know it is a very poor plan, but something like that would boil my blood. If I had time to cool down before I saw the poor soul again, I would more than likely have a conversation with my sister about it. I would tell her how I feel, why I feel that way, and try to get her to slow things down since she is so young. The family friend would then have to answer to my whole family, and hope his plane ticket is open ended, because his welcome stay in that house would be over.
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This probably will help you none, since by your first post we are two very different personality types, but I would pound the family friend into the ground first, ask questions second. I know it is a very poor plan, but something like that would boil my blood. If I had time to cool down before I saw the poor soul again, I would more than likely have a conversation with my sister about it. I would tell her how I feel, why I feel that way, and try to get her to slow things down since she is so young. The family friend would then have to answer to my whole family, and hope his plane ticket is open ended, because his welcome stay in that house would be over.
Next you can brand a scarlet letter onto the girl! Or send her to a monestary and have the nuns beat god into her. Better yet, send her to some psycho african country and have her clit cut off so she will never feel any sexual pleasure.
No. These are all ridiculously bad ideas, so bad that there's no real purpose to them other than flaming and spamming. Infraction.
This probably will help you none, since by your first post we are two very different personality types, but I would pound the family friend into the ground first, ask questions second. I know it is a very poor plan, but something like that would boil my blood.
The problem your method of thinking has is that the OP got to this point by snooping where he shouldn't have. For every punch you want to deliver to your friend's face, your sister should let your friend ream her right in front of you. "You" went in your sister's personal phone and looked up her personal messages without her asking you to scroll through them. Anything you act on as a result of that makes you the villain here.
Secondly, even if your sister (or friend... OR BOTH!) came out and told you about the explicit sexual conduct going on between them (aside from your friend being a dick for telling you about how great a lay your sister is), what can you do? You're 20. Punching your friend in the face because he had consensual sex with your sister is going to do one thing: get you put in jail. It's her body and her life and, so long as your state laws say 16 is an OK age to have sex with a 20 year old at (or 22, whatever), the state is going to agree with her and tell you you're wrong and beat you down. Regardless of "your honor" and "your morals," doing anything illegal to your friend puts you in the wrong while he has always been in the right.
Kick him out of your house, but that's not going to resolve anything with your sister. If she really wants too, she'll just find another guy (probably worse than your friend) to shake babymakers with and after your brutish response, it'll probably be out of spite more than anything else.
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If your sister wants to be a good-time girl, there is absolutely nothing to be done about it. If she is hell-bent on having sex with a man, its pretty much guaranteed to happen. All of the things that she was taught in school, by her parents, and by you were put to the test when she had sex with that boy, and she failed that test.
There is little use in getting upset over the lost innocence of someone whom, by all indications, didn't care much for innocence in the first place.
And let me tell you, when she gets to college, its only gonna get worse. Most girls in my classes have double-digit numbers of sex partners, and some of them are quite reluctant to speak about their behaviors with men during their freshman and sophomore years.
Just put it in the back of your mind, and keep to your moral code. If nothing else, it will prove superiority of will, and at best, will prove superiority of character.
Why did she ask you to fix her phone when it had that on it? This reminds me of a teacher at my school who brought a laptop to school to get fixed with explicit pictures and videos of children. He went to jail for about 8 years and his daughter, who was in my class, left without a word. You really have to feel sorry for her, the videos were of her and some exhange students, he had a camera above the shower. And I have been in his car. It's scary.
Anyways, talk to her and let her know that she is young and what she is doing is extreme.
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16 now, cool. 14 always seemed to young. It has been my absolute cut off age for as long as I can remember. I cannot recall a single 14 or 15 year old I would concider bedable or even mature enough to make that decision, but I meet alot of 16 year olds who I would place that responsibility on.
banner by god child. he'd make you one too, if you weren't so bad at posting.
Next you can brand a scarlet letter onto the girl! Or send her to a monestary and have the nuns beat god into her. Better yet, send her to some psycho african country and have her clit cut off so she will never feel any sexual pleasure.
No. These are all ridiculously bad ideas, so bad that there's no real purpose to them other than flaming and spamming. Infraction.
The problem your method of thinking has is that the OP got to this point by snooping where he shouldn't have. For every punch you want to deliver to your friend's face, your sister should let your friend ream her right in front of you. "You" went in your sister's personal phone and looked up her personal messages without her asking you to scroll through them. Anything you act on as a result of that makes you the villain here.
Secondly, even if your sister (or friend... OR BOTH!) came out and told you about the explicit sexual conduct going on between them (aside from your friend being a dick for telling you about how great a lay your sister is), what can you do? You're 20. Punching your friend in the face because he had consensual sex with your sister is going to do one thing: get you put in jail. It's her body and her life and, so long as your state laws say 16 is an OK age to have sex with a 20 year old at (or 22, whatever), the state is going to agree with her and tell you you're wrong and beat you down. Regardless of "your honor" and "your morals," doing anything illegal to your friend puts you in the wrong while he has always been in the right.
Kick him out of your house, but that's not going to resolve anything with your sister. If she really wants too, she'll just find another guy (probably worse than your friend) to shake babymakers with and after your brutish response, it'll probably be out of spite more than anything else.
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If your sister wants to be a good-time girl, there is absolutely nothing to be done about it. If she is hell-bent on having sex with a man, its pretty much guaranteed to happen. All of the things that she was taught in school, by her parents, and by you were put to the test when she had sex with that boy, and she failed that test.
There is little use in getting upset over the lost innocence of someone whom, by all indications, didn't care much for innocence in the first place.
And let me tell you, when she gets to college, its only gonna get worse. Most girls in my classes have double-digit numbers of sex partners, and some of them are quite reluctant to speak about their behaviors with men during their freshman and sophomore years.
Just put it in the back of your mind, and keep to your moral code. If nothing else, it will prove superiority of will, and at best, will prove superiority of character.
Anyways, talk to her and let her know that she is young and what she is doing is extreme.
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