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Seriously, what about this strikes you as remotely worthy of discussion?
Or you could avoid the 'felony' part and get to the know the person and see for yourself if its worth pursuing.
Makes sense to me, unless the law is different were you are there is nothing against even going on a date with her, just as long as you don't do anything sexual.
If the problem is you don't like her then unless she rapes you, you should be fine.
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17 is close enough. It's not like she's 12. Besides, mental age of young women is higher than that of men of the same age. Hit it!....maybe the wrong words to use but fark it. Hit it!
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Well I'm not sure where you live, but I know in my state if you are 19 you would be legal in sleeping with this girl.
The OP's profile says he's 23.....that's definitely what I would call an "inappropriate age difference". That's just me, but I seriously doubt that any kind of maturity level garbage is going to matter due to the specific ages of the parties in question. The typical 23 year old male, and 16-17 year old female are at very differernt places in their lives.
Well if OP's sig is telling the truth (I doubt it is but this is an if) he would be in a bad situation to do that.
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Anyone have any actual experience with this? She's a nice girl and all, I just don't want to do anything. I've told her it'd be a felony and that just seems to encourage her. Seriouslly, she sat and watched as me and 3 guys played magic at the college for a good, 2 hours.
I just don't have much experience letting a girl off easy, let alone a girl six years younger than me.
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Anyone have any actual experience with this? She's a nice girl and all, I just don't want to do anything. I've told her it'd be a felony and that just seems to encourage her. Seriouslly, she sat and watched as me and 3 guys played magic at the college for a good, 2 hours.
I just don't have much experience letting a girl off easy, let alone a girl six years younger than me.
Dude, young girls get the wrong impression REALLY easily. You're going to have to make it unfailingly clear to her that you are not interested in hanging out with her. Don't go with the 'I could get in trouble' argument because that makes it sound like YOU WANT to get 'involved' with her. Just tell her that she's too young for you, and that you're not interested. You may have to be a bit mean to get your point across, but it's better than allowing a situation like this to go on - it'll be better for both of you in the long run.
Do you know anyone else her age? Maybe a good way to get rid of her would be to divert her attention to some other guy - she may just be desperate for attention.
Dude, young girls get the wrong impression REALLY easily. You're going to have to make it unfailingly clear to her that you are not interested in hanging out with her. Don't go with the 'I could get in trouble' argument because that makes it sound like YOU WANT to get 'involved' with her. Just tell her that she's too young for you, and that you're not interested. You may have to be a bit mean to get your point across, but it's better than allowing a situation like this to go on - it'll be better for both of you in the long run.
Do you know anyone else her age? Maybe a good way to get rid of her would be to divert her attention to some other guy - she may just be desperate for attention.
I reiterate. First of all, I'm sure you're giving her more than an appropriate level of attention, or else she wouldn't be encouraged to hang around you. Second, you may have to be kind of a jerk to get her to leave you alone, but it's worth it. Hurt feelings are better than jail right? Say anything you need to in order to get her to leave you alone.
Profile says you are 23. She is 17. Regardless of legality... No.
When I was 21 and in College there was a 15 year old townie that was hanging around more than she should have. None of us wanted to be mean and she ended up causing a lot of trouble. Like... one guy I know slept with her and she came after him for $400 to get an abortion. And then we all find out that she did that to 2 other guys and wasn't ever pregnant. She wanted to buy new clothes. It is one of the few times in my life where I made the right decision and just stayed away. She was a mess.
Fast forward 6 years and I am teaching at a college. I had a very forward and aggressive student ask me for meetings every couple of weeks. She was smart and hated getting bad grades (a.k.a. - B+ or less). I could tell that she was trying to corner me and get alone time with me after class. I was happily employed, married, and moral so I always set up our meetings in the student center right in front of the Taco Bell. Later, after I moved away to Oregon she tells me, "You know I would have _____'d you for an A." She then moved to Oregon. Nothing has happened since then, but seriously... WTF?
The moral of the story is: If you get a stalkerish vibe from a girl you are probably right and it's best to stay away. AND, 15-20 is a really bad age for a lot of girls. One of the nice things about being 23 is that you aren't stuck with a 15-20 year old dating pool.
Of course if there is more complexity to your side of the story please tell us. As it is, she sounds like a puppy looking for a dad.
The OP's profile says he's 23.....that's definitely what I would call an "inappropriate age difference". That's just me, but I seriously doubt that any kind of maturity level garbage is going to matter due to the specific ages of the parties in question. The typical 23 year old male, and 16-17 year old female are at very differernt places in their lives.
The age difference is HUGE. Its not something that can be measured accurately in years either.
Unfortunately, the OP isnt in France. I've heard some bad stories about girls fathers sticking a guy up on the sexual offender list, or her shaking him down for cash later and so forth.
Avoid like plague. If shes interested in a year, give her a call.
And yes, the 15-20 pool sucks. As soon as I realized that (age 17), I got many many girlfriends, all of whom were 20 or older. My current girlfriend is 9 years older than me. Older chicks are winner.
the legal age of consent in washington is only 16 years old people... she's legal.
now I on the otherhand, just graduation highschool (and is 18 atm). and I have a 14 year old girl attached to me :frown:, AND I live in texas where the age is 17 with a three year romeo-juliet style age difference
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And she only turned 17 in march
So... yeah.
Seriously, though, do you want someone to give you a pat on the back?
Do you want advice? (The best advice would be to stay away)
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Run, run, run like hell. Don't mess around with that kind of thing.
And shame on you for even allowing it to come to the point that you're worrying about committing a criminal act.
Or you could avoid the 'felony' part and get to the know the person and see for yourself if its worth pursuing.
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Makes sense to me, unless the law is different were you are there is nothing against even going on a date with her, just as long as you don't do anything sexual.
If the problem is you don't like her then unless she rapes you, you should be fine.
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...depending on how old you are..
If you are 18 or 19 and she isn't related to a police. I say go for it.
If you are 20 or older, run or wait a year.
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Well if OP's sig is telling the truth (I doubt it is but this is an if) he would be in a bad situation to do that.
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Well I'm not sure where you live, but I know in my state if you are 19 you would be legal in sleeping with this girl.
The OP's profile says he's 23.....that's definitely what I would call an "inappropriate age difference". That's just me, but I seriously doubt that any kind of maturity level garbage is going to matter due to the specific ages of the parties in question. The typical 23 year old male, and 16-17 year old female are at very differernt places in their lives.
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Well,
My was perfectly correct, up until March, where I no longer in fact work actively for the government. I haven't gotten around to changing my profiles on all the different message boards I have accounts with. Was in the navy until just now. I'm still in the reserves, so I work for the government, but not as much as I used too
Anyone have any actual experience with this? She's a nice girl and all, I just don't want to do anything. I've told her it'd be a felony and that just seems to encourage her. Seriouslly, she sat and watched as me and 3 guys played magic at the college for a good, 2 hours.
I just don't have much experience letting a girl off easy, let alone a girl six years younger than me.
Dude, young girls get the wrong impression REALLY easily. You're going to have to make it unfailingly clear to her that you are not interested in hanging out with her. Don't go with the 'I could get in trouble' argument because that makes it sound like YOU WANT to get 'involved' with her. Just tell her that she's too young for you, and that you're not interested. You may have to be a bit mean to get your point across, but it's better than allowing a situation like this to go on - it'll be better for both of you in the long run.
Do you know anyone else her age? Maybe a good way to get rid of her would be to divert her attention to some other guy - she may just be desperate for attention.
Not worth it.
If it is, it's certainly worth waiting few more months.
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I see her at the student center/lounge thing.
I reiterate. First of all, I'm sure you're giving her more than an appropriate level of attention, or else she wouldn't be encouraged to hang around you. Second, you may have to be kind of a jerk to get her to leave you alone, but it's worth it. Hurt feelings are better than jail right? Say anything you need to in order to get her to leave you alone.
Fast forward 6 years and I am teaching at a college. I had a very forward and aggressive student ask me for meetings every couple of weeks. She was smart and hated getting bad grades (a.k.a. - B+ or less). I could tell that she was trying to corner me and get alone time with me after class. I was happily employed, married, and moral so I always set up our meetings in the student center right in front of the Taco Bell. Later, after I moved away to Oregon she tells me, "You know I would have _____'d you for an A." She then moved to Oregon. Nothing has happened since then, but seriously... WTF?
The moral of the story is: If you get a stalkerish vibe from a girl you are probably right and it's best to stay away. AND, 15-20 is a really bad age for a lot of girls. One of the nice things about being 23 is that you aren't stuck with a 15-20 year old dating pool.
Of course if there is more complexity to your side of the story please tell us. As it is, she sounds like a puppy looking for a dad.
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Like I was saying earlier..........
The age difference is HUGE. Its not something that can be measured accurately in years either.
Answer my question. What state are you in?
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- it isn't exactly relevant, but 18 is unrealistically high for an age of consent :-/.
- you're 35.29% older than her. That's kind of a lot. Even if it were legal, it probably wouldn't be a great idea.
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Avoid like plague. If shes interested in a year, give her a call.
And yes, the 15-20 pool sucks. As soon as I realized that (age 17), I got many many girlfriends, all of whom were 20 or older. My current girlfriend is 9 years older than me. Older chicks are winner.
now I on the otherhand, just graduation highschool (and is 18 atm). and I have a 14 year old girl attached to me :frown:, AND I live in texas where the age is 17 with a three year romeo-juliet style age difference
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