You're... taking testosterone and an anti-estrogen? If it's not too personal a question to ask, is this to address some kind of hypogonadism (or something potentially more awkward), or am I reading way too much into this?
And if I am reading too much into it, then my apologies, but amateur endocrinology is one of my many interests.
You're... taking testosterone and an anti-estrogen? If it's not too personal a question to ask, is this to address some kind of hypogonadism (or something potentially more awkward), or am I reading way too much into this?
And if I am reading too much into it, then my apologies, but amateur endocrinology is one of my many interests.
Yes, I have hypogonadism, hence the medications. To all the people complaining about my "ab photos," here is me at age 17, before I started Testosterone Replacement Therapy
In the above picture I was eating and exercising basically as hard as I am now, but could not make any changes to my body because I didn't have enough testosterone. I looked 12 at age 17.
I'm so proud of my abs now because I feel as if I've completely transformed myself from the above state.
I think it's rather telling of me that I had to remind myself it was likely hypogonadism rather than a certain something else that popped to mind. But anyway, yes, I can imagine how that kind of cocktail would mess with your head. Especially when you throw in the antidepressants and the Ambien.
Yes miscer, I can see why you wouldn't post this there with the whole neg thing and all.
A peice of advice to you from a fellow miscer, this forum has a LOT of people on it who don't think looks matter, now obviously we know they're wrong and looks do matter just as much as personality, but refering to a girl as a 3/10 on this forum will get you a lot of **** because "its whats on the inside that counts" and "A girls attractiveness is dependent on who's looking". And posting shirtless pictures of yourself annoys people who think looks don't matter.
Also coming from another miscer, stop acting like you're huge, please dear god, you're pretty small for a lifter. Seriously bro, when you post these pics anyone who actually lifts looks at your pics and goes "does this kid really think he's big". To quote mark rippetoes "you could be 5'10'' 150 pounds and RIPPED, but the moment you put a shirt on you're just another skinny ******". You need to focus on actual size and strength rather than your "ripped 6 pack" if I saw you with a shirt on I probably wouldn't know you work out, and guess what, humans wear shirts through most of their lives.
td;lr eat heavy, lift heavy, take a multi, get off this "ripped 6 pack" ****.
But A) A huge guy is generally attractive, but I personally find shorter, bearded, hairy, fatter guys really attractive as well. It's not like only huge guys are attractive.
And B) the hottest guy I've ever seen could ask me out but if it was clear after a few dates that we weren't compatible, I would break it off.
Looks do matter, but "looks" is different for each person, it's very individual, and looks are part of a blend of other things that also matter.
But A) A huge guy is generally attractive, but I personally find shorter, bearded, hairy, fatter guys really attractive as well. It's not like only huge guys are attractive.
And B) the hottest guy I've ever seen could ask me out but if it was clear after a few dates that we weren't compatible, I would break it off.
Looks do matter, but "looks" is different for each person, it's very individual, and looks are part of a blend of other things that also matter.
That post was from one miscer to another, a non-miscer wouldn't understand the bonds of the misc.
You realize that has nothing to do with her sexuality and everything to do with the fact that she doesn't mind cheating? At best, "it's okay if it's another girl" is just a flimsy excuse no different from anything a straight girl would tell you if you caught her cheating on another guy.
That little rant of yours is about as accurate as if I were to say I'd never date a straight guy because they're all horrible jerks or something.
Interestingly enough my current gf said she seriously doubted she'd ever date a straight male...
On Topic- if you like her ask her out. Regardless of how she identifies it is a yes or no question.
Interestingly enough my current gf said she seriously doubted she'd ever date a straight male...
Straight male isn't out of the question for me. Straight female totally is, but whatever (though amusingly I've twice, maybe thrice over the years had straight girls express interest... I just kind of dodged them, and the stories aren't interesting enough to tell). My partner's actual sexuality doesn't really mean that much to me so long as they actually, you know, swing the appropriate way (and aren't asexual—that just wouldn't work). But seriously though, yeah, some straight guys are jerks, but then again some lesbians are jerks, some bisexuals are jerks, etc. No reason to restrict one's dating pool unnecessarily.
Straight male isn't out of the question for me. Straight female totally is, but whatever (though amusingly I've twice, maybe thrice over the years had straight girls express interest... I just kind of dodged them, and the stories aren't interesting enough to tell). My partner's actual sexuality doesn't really mean that much to me so long as they actually, you know, swing the appropriate way (and aren't asexual—that just wouldn't work). But seriously though, yeah, some straight guys are jerks, but then again some lesbians are jerks, some bisexuals are jerks, etc. No reason to restrict one's dating pool unnecessarily.
It was mostly amusing because she founded and is president of my university's Gay Straight Alliance (hell of a name right?). All (of 5) asexual people I've met don't seek out relationships unless they are with OTHER asexual people.
It was mostly amusing because she founded and is president of my university's Gay Straight Alliance (hell of a name right?). All (of 5) asexual people I've met don't seek out relationships unless they are with OTHER asexual people.
Well, let's be fair here, asexuals can still want romantic relationships. But they don't want sex (an asexual friend of mine said, basically, "I'm fine with sex, but the thought of me having it grosses me out"). So having a sexual partner would just be likely to introduce problems. Which is the reason I exclude asexuals from my potential dating pool.
Well, let's be fair here, asexuals can still want romantic relationships. But they don't want sex (an asexual friend of mine said, basically, "I'm fine with sex, but the thought of me having it grosses me out"). So having a sexual partner would just be likely to introduce problems. Which is the reason I exclude asexuals from my potential dating pool.
Right. I assume that is the reason all of the asexual individuals I know limit their dating pool (if any) to other asexuals. It is unrealistic for either party to accept a compromise that causes the other great discomfort (having or not having sex). Of course only 1 asexual person I've met and talked to has had an serious romantic ambitions.
Hrm, well judging by your pic, I'm not judging your body but your face is more of a 'meh/10'
What does that mean? That means even if you are really good looking to any other person, you're not good looking to me. I find many men attractive (In case you're wondering, I'm male - yes I know the name is deceiving, but I'm in tune to my femininity.) but I can tell you that I don't find you attractive. You said she was 3/10 before people called you out for being a horrible person. Drugs or no drugs, that is horrible. It's one thing to blurt it out, people are known to say things without thinking, but you're writing in a **** forum. You surely should be able to think further than that?
The way you describe her and her compatibility should make her at least an '8/10.'
Yes miscer, I can see why you wouldn't post this there with the whole neg thing and all.
A peice of advice to you from a fellow miscer, this forum has a LOT of people on it who don't think looks matter, now obviously we know they're wrong and looks do matter just as much as personality, but refering to a girl as a 3/10 on this forum will get you a lot of **** because "its whats on the inside that counts" and "A girls attractiveness is dependent on who's looking". And posting shirtless pictures of yourself annoys people who think looks don't matter.
Also coming from another miscer, stop acting like you're huge, please dear god, you're pretty small for a lifter. Seriously bro, when you post these pics anyone who actually lifts looks at your pics and goes "does this kid really think he's big". To quote mark rippetoes "you could be 5'10'' 150 pounds and RIPPED, but the moment you put a shirt on you're just another skinny ******". You need to focus on actual size and strength rather than your "ripped 6 pack" if I saw you with a shirt on I probably wouldn't know you work out, and guess what, humans wear shirts through most of their lives.
td;lr eat heavy, lift heavy, take a multi, get off this "ripped 6 pack" ****.
I think looks matter and I find those pics annoying.
However ever thoguht of doing something else instead of being massively ripped?
I am fairly muscular. I'm what, 5' almost 8" and around 170 pounds. I wouldn't be built for a lifter but for someone who's not working out, I'm pretty decent. Most of my muscle comes from my legs however. So I am heavier than most people around me but I tend to try to hide my body as much as possible.
From that, you pick up chicks with your great personnality, manipulativity or just loads of cash (the 3rd one I dont have and my personnality is superficially great. I can real dick once you get to know me so I try to manage it.) Then, however, people don't expect too much of you, so whenever people see you without a shirt or touch your arms or something, then you get the amazed look.
Don't try to set it up, just let it happen by itself, not everyone will notice and just let it be. If a particular girl or w/e never ends up knowing, if she can't be interested in you without that, then theres no point. But if ever you get intimate with a girl... well... all of them have been pleasently surprised. Makes them come back for more, ya know? If they can get everything that is there from jsut looking at you, I don't see why they'd come back.
first things first. i read everything and i dont agree with most of criticism OP received from the guys here, you are still young and have some problems, but from your responses you are intelligent and will learn from your mistakes.
now i see the "happy ending" and i need to warn you some things before you proceed.
a long time ago i dated a girl that showed great interest on me, it was nice and all but after some time she told me her big "secret", before me she had a long time relationship with another girl, apparently she was trying to turn "heterosexual" with me (her parents were very religious and would never accept her being lesbian, so she hide from everyone).
i knew that was a terrible idea, but couldnt stop myself from liking her. sometime later obviously our relation crashed.
its absolutely normal for young lesbian gals to be confused, try to force themselves onto things that are easier to be accepted by society. but that doesnt mean anyone can turn into something they arent, none can.
of course im not saying your relationship with this girl is doomed. but if shes lesbian (bisexual are just girls that havent accepted themselves yet, flames away :p) it wont end well.
take care and good luck.
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The game is not being dumbed down. Control is doing fine; Draw-Go is not the only kind of control. Aggro is doing fine; Red Deck Wins is not the only kind of aggro. Creature combat is an important core concept and belongs in every color. Mythic rarity is not destroying the game. People whine too much for no good reason. Magic is more popular than ever, so keep calm, brew some decks and play some damn cards.
I don't think I look like Brad Pitt or anything, but I know that I at least would get a 7/10 rating from most girls.
Clearly, I have a rigorous diet and exercise routine, I get nice haircuts, I have great hygene, I brush my teeth after every eating opportunity, and I floss once a day. I wear very nice clothes.
So that tells me I am at least attractive enough to spark the initial interest.
Do you want an honest opinion? No, you're not a 7/10.
To put it lightly, I find pictures of you difficult to look at...
Do you want an honest opinion? No, you're not a 7/10.
I don't believe in the number system for rating people, but honestly, he's not all that attractive. I wouldn't call him ugly or anything, but he's not really a prize either. But it's worth noting he's so far beyond "not my type" that I have a hard time rating him at all. Then again I'm not "most girls" and maybe he knows a bunch of girls who do find him attractive. Stranger things have happened.
So how, precisely, is it that someone can't be attracted to multiple genders at once?
(Now I can just imagine someone reading that post, reading my reply, and thinking, "Well, that was like clockwork.")
its not that one cant be attracted to multiple genders, but sometime ago i remember reading a study that concluded that all bisexuals in fact had one prefered sex.
so what about you, if you found twins (a male and a female) with all characteristics that you enjoy for a mate, but could only chose one of them be be your boy/girl friend, who would you pick? would you roll a die?
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its not that one cant be attracted to multiple genders, but sometime ago i remember reading a study that concluded that all bisexuals in fact had one prefered sex.
Some do (for example, I prefer women, and I'm friends with someone who prefers men). Some don't. And some are what could in a more accurate sense be called panromantic demisexuals. Ultimately, the "you prefer one over the other" argument doesn't work. Saying you can't be attracted to multiple genders at once or that there's some other problem with that because you prefer one to the other is like saying there's a problem with attracted to blondes and brunettes at the same time because you prefer one or the other. I mean, so what if you prefer one? You still like and could be happy with the other.
So I missed it somewhere. Was the end result that the orientation didn't matter because the BFF was a blocker?
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You're... taking testosterone and an anti-estrogen? If it's not too personal a question to ask, is this to address some kind of hypogonadism (or something potentially more awkward), or am I reading way too much into this?
And if I am reading too much into it, then my apologies, but amateur endocrinology is one of my many interests.
Yes, I have hypogonadism, hence the medications. To all the people complaining about my "ab photos," here is me at age 17, before I started Testosterone Replacement Therapy
In the above picture I was eating and exercising basically as hard as I am now, but could not make any changes to my body because I didn't have enough testosterone. I looked 12 at age 17.
I'm so proud of my abs now because I feel as if I've completely transformed myself from the above state.
Yes miscer, I can see why you wouldn't post this there with the whole neg thing and all.
A peice of advice to you from a fellow miscer, this forum has a LOT of people on it who don't think looks matter, now obviously we know they're wrong and looks do matter just as much as personality, but refering to a girl as a 3/10 on this forum will get you a lot of **** because "its whats on the inside that counts" and "A girls attractiveness is dependent on who's looking". And posting shirtless pictures of yourself annoys people who think looks don't matter.
Also coming from another miscer, stop acting like you're huge, please dear god, you're pretty small for a lifter. Seriously bro, when you post these pics anyone who actually lifts looks at your pics and goes "does this kid really think he's big". To quote mark rippetoes "you could be 5'10'' 150 pounds and RIPPED, but the moment you put a shirt on you're just another skinny ******". You need to focus on actual size and strength rather than your "ripped 6 pack" if I saw you with a shirt on I probably wouldn't know you work out, and guess what, humans wear shirts through most of their lives.
td;lr eat heavy, lift heavy, take a multi, get off this "ripped 6 pack" ****.
But A) A huge guy is generally attractive, but I personally find shorter, bearded, hairy, fatter guys really attractive as well. It's not like only huge guys are attractive.
And B) the hottest guy I've ever seen could ask me out but if it was clear after a few dates that we weren't compatible, I would break it off.
Looks do matter, but "looks" is different for each person, it's very individual, and looks are part of a blend of other things that also matter.
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That post was from one miscer to another, a non-miscer wouldn't understand the bonds of the misc.
Don't worry, I will take my multi and lift heavy so that I can acquire ZYZZ aesthetics and get a heavenly blessed beauty.
Interestingly enough my current gf said she seriously doubted she'd ever date a straight male...
On Topic- if you like her ask her out. Regardless of how she identifies it is a yes or no question.
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Straight male isn't out of the question for me. Straight female totally is, but whatever (though amusingly I've twice, maybe thrice over the years had straight girls express interest... I just kind of dodged them, and the stories aren't interesting enough to tell). My partner's actual sexuality doesn't really mean that much to me so long as they actually, you know, swing the appropriate way (and aren't asexual—that just wouldn't work). But seriously though, yeah, some straight guys are jerks, but then again some lesbians are jerks, some bisexuals are jerks, etc. No reason to restrict one's dating pool unnecessarily.
It was mostly amusing because she founded and is president of my university's Gay Straight Alliance (hell of a name right?). All (of 5) asexual people I've met don't seek out relationships unless they are with OTHER asexual people.
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Well, let's be fair here, asexuals can still want romantic relationships. But they don't want sex (an asexual friend of mine said, basically, "I'm fine with sex, but the thought of me having it grosses me out"). So having a sexual partner would just be likely to introduce problems. Which is the reason I exclude asexuals from my potential dating pool.
Right. I assume that is the reason all of the asexual individuals I know limit their dating pool (if any) to other asexuals. It is unrealistic for either party to accept a compromise that causes the other great discomfort (having or not having sex). Of course only 1 asexual person I've met and talked to has had an serious romantic ambitions.
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What does that mean? That means even if you are really good looking to any other person, you're not good looking to me. I find many men attractive (In case you're wondering, I'm male - yes I know the name is deceiving, but I'm in tune to my femininity.) but I can tell you that I don't find you attractive. You said she was 3/10 before people called you out for being a horrible person. Drugs or no drugs, that is horrible. It's one thing to blurt it out, people are known to say things without thinking, but you're writing in a **** forum. You surely should be able to think further than that?
The way you describe her and her compatibility should make her at least an '8/10.'
I think looks matter and I find those pics annoying.
However ever thoguht of doing something else instead of being massively ripped?
I am fairly muscular. I'm what, 5' almost 8" and around 170 pounds. I wouldn't be built for a lifter but for someone who's not working out, I'm pretty decent. Most of my muscle comes from my legs however. So I am heavier than most people around me but I tend to try to hide my body as much as possible.
From that, you pick up chicks with your great personnality, manipulativity or just loads of cash (the 3rd one I dont have and my personnality is superficially great. I can real dick once you get to know me so I try to manage it.) Then, however, people don't expect too much of you, so whenever people see you without a shirt or touch your arms or something, then you get the amazed look.
Don't try to set it up, just let it happen by itself, not everyone will notice and just let it be. If a particular girl or w/e never ends up knowing, if she can't be interested in you without that, then theres no point. But if ever you get intimate with a girl... well... all of them have been pleasently surprised. Makes them come back for more, ya know? If they can get everything that is there from jsut looking at you, I don't see why they'd come back.
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yeah it turned out that I was just being a huge overanalyzing emotional baby this whole time.
I think this sums up my behavior:
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I talked to the girl in church, everythings cool, no lesbian, and we are suppose to hang out this week.
How do I get this thread deleted so I can completely forget my foolishness and move on? Like who do I need to contact?
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now i see the "happy ending" and i need to warn you some things before you proceed.
a long time ago i dated a girl that showed great interest on me, it was nice and all but after some time she told me her big "secret", before me she had a long time relationship with another girl, apparently she was trying to turn "heterosexual" with me (her parents were very religious and would never accept her being lesbian, so she hide from everyone).
i knew that was a terrible idea, but couldnt stop myself from liking her. sometime later obviously our relation crashed.
its absolutely normal for young lesbian gals to be confused, try to force themselves onto things that are easier to be accepted by society. but that doesnt mean anyone can turn into something they arent, none can.
of course im not saying your relationship with this girl is doomed. but if shes lesbian (bisexual are just girls that havent accepted themselves yet, flames away :p) it wont end well.
take care and good luck.
Mythic rarity is not destroying the game. People whine too much for no good reason. Magic is more popular than ever, so keep calm, brew some decks and play some damn cards.
So how, precisely, is it that someone can't be attracted to multiple genders at once?
(Now I can just imagine someone reading that post, reading my reply, and thinking, "Well, that was like clockwork.")
To put it lightly, I find pictures of you difficult to look at...
I don't believe in the number system for rating people, but honestly, he's not all that attractive. I wouldn't call him ugly or anything, but he's not really a prize either. But it's worth noting he's so far beyond "not my type" that I have a hard time rating him at all. Then again I'm not "most girls" and maybe he knows a bunch of girls who do find him attractive. Stranger things have happened.
its not that one cant be attracted to multiple genders, but sometime ago i remember reading a study that concluded that all bisexuals in fact had one prefered sex.
so what about you, if you found twins (a male and a female) with all characteristics that you enjoy for a mate, but could only chose one of them be be your boy/girl friend, who would you pick? would you roll a die?
Mythic rarity is not destroying the game. People whine too much for no good reason. Magic is more popular than ever, so keep calm, brew some decks and play some damn cards.
Some do (for example, I prefer women, and I'm friends with someone who prefers men). Some don't. And some are what could in a more accurate sense be called panromantic demisexuals. Ultimately, the "you prefer one over the other" argument doesn't work. Saying you can't be attracted to multiple genders at once or that there's some other problem with that because you prefer one to the other is like saying there's a problem with attracted to blondes and brunettes at the same time because you prefer one or the other. I mean, so what if you prefer one? You still like and could be happy with the other.