By the way, getting married right after graduation can actually work really well. Smile My husband and I graduated on a Monday and got married that Friday. We've been married 19 years this spring. Don't dismiss early marriage out of hand.
Before you can live with someone else you first have to live with yourself. If the guy does not have any job prospects yet then really getting married is not a good idea. Getting married with one partner being unemployed from the start is not the ideal way to start a marriage.
Also I question whether your girl is ready for marriage if she is not willing to at least get a job where you both can live. Marriage is all about compromise.
And I know that the economy is bad, but I have seen far too many of my acquaintance reach their 30s and 40s and struggle to find a partner. Frown It's not something I would ever recommend.
I disagree with this sentiment. It is rare that 23 year olds have the maturity to be married. Also a person is not made whole by getting married. I'm not knocking marriage but be wary of being in a relationship just for the sake of being in one. It has been my experience that being alone is better than being in a destructive relationship
Before you can live with someone else you first have to live with yourself. If the guy does not have any job prospects yet then really getting married is not a good idea. Getting married with one partner being unemployed from the start is not the ideal way to start a marriage.
Also I question whether your girl is ready for marriage if she is not willing to at least get a job where you both can live. Marriage is all about compromise.
I disagree with this sentiment. It is rare that 23 year olds have the maturity to be married. Also a person is not made whole by getting married. I'm not knocking marriage but be wary of being in a relationship just for the sake of being in one. It has been my experience that being alone is better than being in a destructive relationship