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  • posted a message on Is raising children with religion child abuse?
    Quote from Stairc »
    What's the point in responding to the other things if we can't even work out whether you're being fair or honest in your responses? Not to mention respectful. Your responses to DJK here are just rude. Teaching him how to google and "grading" him? Come on.
    I was in the middle of grading papers when I made that post, sorry?
    If it makes you feel any better, I would likely give my own posts lower than an A-, but I am my own greatest critic...
    Quote from Stairc »

    This is particularly ironic because when asked to justify your statement that critical thinking is good and indoctrination is bad, you just crawl back to "well, you think that stuff don't you?"
    If you believe that critical thinking is good and indoctrination is bad, can you justify that claim? Or are you just "vomiting up what you know is right"?
    I don't think I really do believe one of those things is good and one of them is bad. I mean, I understand the connotation for 'indoctrination' is normally negative in this day and age, as the connotation for "critical thinking" is normally positive. But, I don't think I really draw a line about "good and bad" when speaking about the actual things those labels can describe. Someone can be "indoctrinated" into a very positive thing, and often times "critical thinking" can be a little too critical, in my opinion. But -really- since I don't -in anyway- believe in free will, I don't see much of a difference. Additionally, one could be "indoctrinated" into "thinking critically," so it's not even a dichotomy.

    Anyway, really, I was just trying to find some common ground with the people I was talking to. I know DJK3654 said one was good and one was bad, and I assumed you felt the same. Thus, instead of wasting most of my post explaining or debating the meaning of words, I just went off of what I assumed was an accepted understanding (like I am now by using English words to mean what I assume people think they mean). I felt being too nitpicky about things would only become counter productive. For example, the statement "I don't believe in free will" could easily spark a whole different debate that would completely derail the discussion, as would a debate about the 'connotation' of "indoctrination" or "critical thinking." Thus, I find this line of discourse harmful to the overall debate.
    But, since I seemed to have upset you with my restatement of DJK3654's position, I guess I should write all this about my opinion of the epistemology of "indoctrinated" and "thinking critically." But, Stairc, I doubt anyone else gives a ***** about this literal semantic tangent. Franky, I'm a little incredulous that you do. I will say if you attempt to debate me about free will or continue to harp on my opinion of "indoctrinated" and "thinking critically," I'm just going to ignore you. That's not what this thread is -in my opinion- about. And, I genuinely don't feel included to derail it.
    Quote from DJK3654 »
    Does the content of the quote you include not lead you to think that I am not making anything like a strong claim?
    Nothing did.
    In fact, your highlighting that aspect of your position was what I liked most about your post. I'm just saying if you want top marks in my book, you'd have to do more. But--as we've been discussing--it's really up to you how much you care about 'top marks.' If you care enough, you'll do some research and come back better informed. If you don't, you'll not.

    Up to you.
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  • posted a message on Intuition
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hindsight_bias

    As well as a few other cognitive biases account for why people think it's a thing.
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  • posted a message on Is raising children with religion child abuse?
    Quote from DJK3654 »
    @Taylor
    I don't think I need to check everything that I think about. I have things to do, you know. And I doubt there is much data on this matter that is actually accurate in establishing any relationships, due to the difficulties in getting such data.
    Well, now I feel like lowering your grade. I thought you were here to learn something, not to just state what you already believe and move on.
    It seems very closed minded to not want to even check if the information exists. I can say I found the first google hit pretty enlightening myself. But--then again--I am here to learn, not just vomit up what I 'know' is 'right.'
    Quote from Stairc »

    Quote from Taylor »
    I get that critical thinking is good and indoctrination is bad.
    Why? Can you justify that?
    I was just restating DJK3654's position. I thought it was yours as well. I guess not? Shrugs

    Speaking of dodging, I like how you only responded to those two things, which--I felt--were the least important/interesting part of my post.

    Ah well. I guess that's that.
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  • posted a message on Is raising children with religion child abuse?
    Research on whether or not your suspicion is correct. Are religious parents less inclined to teach children critical thinking than secular ones?

    But, an A- is a good grade.
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  • posted a message on Is raising children with religion child abuse?
    Quote from DJK3654 »
    I do think religious people do this somewhat more often, but it's more of a suspicion than anything, and not a point I will argue because I don't have enough information.
    That's basically what I was looking for. For full points you'd need more research, but good work overall.

    "A-"
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  • posted a message on Is raising children with religion child abuse?
    Quote from Stairc »
    Yep. It's not feasible to deal with all possible,secular and religious claims all at once and under all possibilities of how different people in all different situations would possibly react to all of them. What matters here are the systematic way things work.
    Got it. You like your 1&2 example, and if I try to replace them with something else, it's now "not feasible." Why talk about the issue in general using facts, it's too big, right? Let's put our blinders on and only look at the two hypothetical examples you've provided to prove yourself right. Everything else, like the systematic way secular Asians committing suicide over non-religious social pressure, falls too far afield of your handpicked example. Therefor, it's "not feasible" to talk about it.

    My mistake for actually trying to bring in cited facts, instead of just making two up that prove I'm right.
    Quote from Stairc »
    Telling someone about the reality of the consequences of failing school
    Except, it's not 'the reality.' You make it seem like every non-religious threat is plausible, but it's not. Lots of people shouldn't go to college, and lots of people that don't go to college do very well.
    Heck, it matters more how rich your parents are, not religious:
    https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2014/10/18/poor-kids-who-do-everything-right-dont-do-better-than-rich-kids-who-do-everything-wrong/

    But, I guess this is more of the "too big" and 'real life' cited facts you don't want to muddy the waters with. I wouldn't want to stray too far from your script.
    Quote from DJK3654 »
    Biggest difference is that the first is telling you how to act, the second is telling you how to think.
    So, no secular parent has ever told their child to think a certain way?

    A few posts ago you were saying people should teach children to 'think critically.' Guess what? That's telling them how to think.


    I get that critical thinking is good and indoctrination is bad. But, the issue isn't as black and white as "secular existential threats are helpful to children, while religious ones are harmful." You can have a bad closed-minded atheist parent and a good open-minded theist parent.

    The religious aspect is tangential to what is helpful or harmful.
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  • posted a message on Is raising children with religion child abuse?
    Quote from Stairc »
    The point here is that the two claims are indeed different. One is a much less severe threat, makes more reasonable demands
    If that's all you're saying, ok. "You'll burn in fire" is 'more severe' than "you'll flunk out of school." Sure.

    Just like "I'll kill you if you do that again" is 'more severe' than "I'll break your arm if you do that again."
    Of course, since both are empty threats, they're generally ineffectual. But -yes- one empty threat is 'more server' than the other empty threat (even if one is slightly more believable).

    I'm not sure if "you'll burn in fire" is 'more severe' than "you'll die disgraced, unloved, and alone after bringing shame to your entire family." But, I guess that's not what you're talking about. You only care about the specific instance you brought up, and not about the overall "potential secular threats" vs "potential religious ones." Nor -it seems- the larger issue of what actually resonates with children and affects their mental wellbeing.

    And, so, ok, you're right, the threat:
    "Do you like failing tests? Do you want to flunk out of school? If not, then study. If you screw up high school, it's going to make things harder for you for the rest of your life."
    Is 'different' and 'less severe' (when taken ONLY at face value) than the threat:
    "Do you want to make our loving god mad? Do you want to burn in fire forever and ever? If not, accept god. If you mess up and start doubting, you'll go to hell."

    Ya got me Shrugs
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  • posted a message on Is raising children with religion child abuse?
    Most children I'm aware of didn't get the "infinite agony" (remember Bart Simpson debating that you'll get used to hell 'like a sauna?' Well, it wasn't an uncommon belief among my peers in Sunday school). My peers and I were more concerned with not getting privileges NOW then something that was supposed to happen after we're dead. As a religious child, I was more worried about my 'TV time' being taken away than some ethereal 'lake of fire.' I don't remember any of my fellow Catholic peers being concerned with going to hell. Hell happens after you die and most kids don't even understand their own mortality very well.

    Additionally, many religions don't go in for "infinite agony." Many Christians, for example, preach that the bad people don't get resurrected on Judgement Day, and remain dead as their punishment. You're argument doesn't even address the religions that don't have an "eternal punishment," which is most of them. An 'Eternal Hell' for the majority of bad people is a pretty nuanced thing, fairly unique to sects of Christianity and Islam.

    It seems to me, you're only arguing against parents that really lace into their kids about hell, and -yeah- that's bad. I don't think anyone would argue that many parents are guilty of unimaginable cruelty because of their faith.[1] But, there are also secular parents harming their kids using 'emotional pressure.' "South Korea has the highest suicide rate in the world among developed nations"[2], and only 29% of the county is Christian (it's mostly secular)[3]

    Anyway, children respond to constancy and followthrough. If you're going to threaten them with punishment, you have to followthrough with it. "Going to a lake of fire" isn't going to work the second time, because they never went to it the first time you threatened it. I would suspect that parents that DO use the "hell" tactic must follow it up with other punishments, because empty threats aren't effective.[4]

    I would be more concerned about what earthly punishment is being used to backup the "hell" empty threat.
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  • posted a message on Is raising children with religion child abuse?
    @Stairc:
    Based on what you've said, it sounds like the section option is easier to ignore. I don't know why "forever screw up your life" is worse than "you'll go to hell." Especially if you're include to believe this is the only life we get, "forever screw up your life" is literally just about the worst thing that could happen. But--regardless of your religious inclination--"hell" is a pretty nebulous idea, while "your life" is pretty concrete to everyone. Speaking as an ex-religious person myself, I've became fully capable of ignoring the "fear of hell," but I am most decidedly not free of the "fear of screwing up life," and likely never will be.

    Regardless--If I'm going to pretend I buy into the whole "free will" thing at all (which I don't)--then I think this is the bottomline:
    Quote from DJK3654 »
    They have a choice whether to care
    This is true of everyone in any situation, ever.
    A prisoner is not free in body, but he can be more free in mind than his jailer.
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  • posted a message on Spiritualism and Atheism, how?
    Quote from DJK3654 »
    He does not say that the mind might have a spiritual essence or substance, he says that a purely physical mechanical explanation might not suffice.
    I think you're misunderstanding what is being meant by "agnostic-dualist."
    Specifically, I think -based on this statement- you don't understand the difference between a physicalist and a dualist.

    Recommended reading:
    http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/physicalism/
    http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/dualism/

    Anyway, the subtitle to his book is "A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion."
    So.... yeah....

    But, even regardless of that, whether you want to classify what he is talking about as "true spiritism" or not (and you may or may not) isn't really the point; the "purely physical mechanical explanation might not suffice" bit is.
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  • posted a message on Spiritualism and Atheism, how?
    I guess the consensus is: "Those that do are being dumb, but lots of people are dumb about stuff, so why are you specifically picking on them for being dumb about it?"

    Which is too much inline with the view point I had going in to argue with. So... Yeah... NVM then...
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  • posted a message on Donald Trump's Presidency
    I would guess they're going to have the debates as often as possible until two politicians are the frontrunners.

    "Carson v Trump" in the primaries isn't what the republican party wants. They'll keep having debates until it changes.
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  • posted a message on Spiritualism and Atheism, how?
    Quote from Jay13x »
    Why does it strike you as incongruous? Atheism, contrary to popular belief, isn't some sort of rational bastion. Someone can be an atheist and firmly believe in all sorts of stupid things. The lack of belief in a deity doesn't mean that lack of belief was arrived at from any kind of logical standpoint, so there really isn't any reason for presuming an Atheist would be more rational or logical than anyone else.
    While you say you don't think I understand, it sounds like you're agreeing with me if you're comparing spiritual atheists to ones that "firmly believe in all sorts of stupid things."

    Again, I understand they can exist, my problem is I feel those that arrived at this belief wasn't "arrived at [it] from any kind of logical standpoint."
    Since I'm not sure to what extent this feeling of mine is justified, I was hoping someone might explain how it isn't. Thus, I could weigh their words, and -subsequently- weigh my own views.
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  • posted a message on Spiritualism and Atheism, how?
    So, people here would classify agnostic Dualism as "an entirely reasonable position," while agnostic deism is to "privilege the hypothesis?" I guess that's one of the things I'm angsty about...

    But, this thread wasn't created to bash Sam Harris's agnostic-anything. I made it in a simple attempt to better understand the worldview of atheists who would also classify themselves as 'spiritual,' and was using Sam Harris as an example.
    Quote from Crashing00 »
    I was also struck by this sentence: "Again, there is nothing about a brain, studied at any scale, that even suggests that it might harbor consciousness—apart from the fact that we experience consciousness directly and have correlated many of its contents, or lack thereof, with processes in our brains." I imagine a pre-industrial person looking at a car and saying "There is nothing about this car, studied at any scale, that even suggests that it might be powered by burning something -- apart from the heat coming out of the front and the smoke coming out of the back," and I laugh.
    Interestingly enough, he addresses this:
    "Some readers may think that I’ve stacked the deck against the sciences of the mind by comparing consciousness to a phenomenon as easily understood as fluidity. Surely science has dispelled far greater mysteries. What, for instance, is the difference between a living system and a dead one? Insofar as questions about consciousness itself can be kept off the table, it seems that the difference is now reasonably clear to us. And yet, as late as 1932, the Scottish physiologist J. S. Haldane (father of J. B. S. Haldane) wrote: 'What intelligible account can the mechanistic theory of life give of the . . . recovery from disease and injuries? Simply none at all, except that these phenomena are so complex and strange that as yet we cannot understand them. It is exactly the same with the closely related phenomena of reproduction. We cannot by any stretch of the imagination conceive a delicate and complex mechanism which is capable, like a living organism, of reproducing itself indefinitely often.'
    Scarcely twenty years passed before our imaginations were duly stretched. Much work in biology remains to be done, but anyone who entertains it at this point is simply ignorant about the nature of living systems. The jury is no longer out on questions of this kind, and more than half a century has passed since the earth’s creatures required an élan vital to propagate themselves or to recover from injury. Is my skepticism that we will arrive at a physical explanation of consciousness analogous to Haldane’s doubt about the feasibility of explaining life in terms of processes that are not themselves alive? It wouldn’t seem so. To say that a system is alive is very much like saying that it is fluid, because life is a matter of what systems do with respect to their environment. Like fluidity, life is defined according to external criteria. Consciousness is not (and, I think, cannot be). We would never have occasion to say of something that does not eat, excrete, grow, or reproduce that it might be “alive.” It might, however, be conscious."

    Quote from Jay13x »
    Atheism isn't the disbelief in metaphysics, it's the disbelief in a god/gods.
    I know
    Quote from Taylor »
    Again, while I understand there isn't a logical contradiction, it strikes me as incongruous.
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  • posted a message on Spiritualism and Atheism, how?
    "As should be clear from the preceding chapters, unlike many scientists and philosophers, I remain agnostic on the question of how consciousness is related to the physical world. There are good reasons to believe that it is an emergent property of brain activity, just as the rest of the human mind is. But we know nothing about how such a miracle of emergence might occur. And if consciousness were irreducible—or even separable from the brain in a way that would give comfort to Saint Augustine—my worldview would not be overturned."

    "I am sympathetic with those who, like the philosopher Colin McGinn and the psychologist Steven Pinker, have suggested that perhaps the emergence of consciousness is simply incomprehensible in human terms. Every chain of explanation must end somewhere—generally with a brute fact that neglects to explain itself. Perhaps consciousness presents an impasse of this sort. In any case, the task of explaining consciousness in physical terms bears little resemblance to other successful explanations in the history of science. The analogies that scientists and philosophers marshal here are invariably misleading...
    No one has described a set of unconscious events whose sufficiency as a cause of consciousness would make sense in this way. Any attempt to understand consciousness in terms of brain activity merely correlates a person’s ability to report an experience (demonstrating that he was aware of it) with specific states of his brain. While such correlations can amount to fascinating neuroscience, they bring us no closer to explaining the emergence of consciousness itself...
    Might a mature neuroscience nevertheless offer a proper explanation of consciousness in terms of its underlying brain processes? Again, there is nothing about a brain, studied at any scale, that even suggests that it might harbor consciousness—apart from the fact that we experience consciousness directly and have correlated many of its contents, or lack thereof, with processes in our brains. Nothing about human behavior or language or culture demonstrates that it is mediated by consciousness, apart from the fact that we simply know that it is—a truth that someone can appreciate in himself directly and in others by analogy.
    Here is where the distinction between studying consciousness itself and studying its contents becomes paramount. It is easy to see how the contents of consciousness might be understood in neurophysiological terms. Consider, for instance, our experience of seeing an object: Its color, contours, apparent motion, and location in space arise in consciousness as a seamless unity, even though this information is processed by many separate systems in the brain. Thus, when a golfer prepares to hit a shot, he does not first see the ball’s roundness, then its whiteness, and only then its position on the tee. Rather, he enjoys a unified perception of the ball. Many neuroscientists believe that this phenomenon of “binding” can be explained by disparate groups of neurons firing in synchrony. Whether or not this theory is true, it is at least intelligible—because synchronous activity seems just the sort of thing that could explain the unity of a percept.
    This work suggests, as many other findings in neuroscience do, that the contents of consciousness can often be made sense of in terms of their underlying neurophysiology. However, when we ask why such phenomena should be experienced in the first place, we are returned to the mystery of consciousness in full...This is not to say that our understanding of the mind won’t change in surprising ways through our study of the brain. There may be no limit to how a maturing neuroscience might reshape our beliefs about the nature of conscious experience. Are we unconscious during sleep or merely unable to remember what sleep is like? Can human minds be duplicated? Neuroscience may one day answer such questions—and the answers might well surprise us. But the reality of consciousness appears irreducible. Only consciousness can know itself—and directly, through first-person experience. It follows, therefore, that rigorous introspection—“spirituality” in the widest sense of the term—is an indispensable part of understanding the nature of the mind."


    -Sam Harris, Waking Up
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