No one is forcing anyone to look at leaked cards.
If you don't want to see spoilers, stay out of the threads that are likely to contain them.
As an aside, I wouldn't mention "high horse" when you're on your own about "saving them happiness."
Not everyone's Christmas is ruined by seeing the gifts. Not everyone wants/likes surprises.
At least we know the lore/environments they could be working with have the potential to be captivating if done well. Kamigawa, Ravnica, Mirrodin, Innistrad, ect... all could be amazing. We'll have to see.
Playing this on turn three means on turn four you can still drop a land and playing a one mana spell (Bolt, Push, Path, Visions, Thoughtseize, ect...) or a threat (Tasigur). Not ideal but workable, especially when it was Wrath turn three or die. Or you have the unlucky situation of not having an untapped land to play or didn't draw enough lands for a four mana wrath, ect...
I'm not saying this will appear everywhere by any means but I can easily see this replacing Damnation in some Modern decks/sideboards.
Not amazing but also not as punishing.
And indeed, people have the option to simply not play (and there are those that do) but at that point you're simply getting back to the original issue I have with them. They would rather have everyone quit (hypothetically) than change their vision. Again, sure that's "respectable" (if self-destructive) for an individual to say, it's not nearly as admirable for a governing body to say, in my opinion of course. Instrumental you say? How so? I was around for both of those events and in neither case do I remember anything especially instrumental happening on the community end. Of course this is simply dragging things off onto tangents. There is no argument that the community isn't instrumental, the RC has literally said as much. Literally. The RC's "vision" is instrumental, the community is secondary. I'm honestly not sure why you're arguing that when they've said as such multiple times.
Well I can at least agree that I'm glade they are honest about it. It sets a very clear line as to what one can expect from them and lets you know when your efforts are fruitless.
What should I be giving them credit for that I am not? I don't remember listing the things I give them credit for. For example, I certainly give them credit for promoting the format and that is something you can objectively tie into the growth of the format. The only thing I explicitly did not give them credit for in this thread was that their "vision is working" as that is an unsubstantiated claim.
And again, it's not me claiming they only care about their vision, these are words from their own mouths (well ok, from Sheldon's mouth specifically). Alongside this is a nice heaping helping of "If you don't like it too bad, go do your own thing/fix it yourself." Again, I don't need to make assumptions or draw conclusions, these are their stated stances. Sure they soften it at times with "The people left out are collateral rather than intentional loses" but it doesn't change anything.
I'm going to have to dig up that quote at some point but 1000 page threads suck to skim through. It's not so much that they don't try to please everyone, it's that they don't try to please anyone (except those that agree with them). There is a difference. And no it's really not demonstrably false, they have banned/unbanned cards that the community wanted banned/unbanned (and of course not banned/unbanned other cards the community has been vocal about) but there is no way to demonstrate that this was in any way them going along with the community rather than them going along with their own interests/"vision" (and in fact their posts prove that their "vision" is what decides the format, community be damned, so if anything it's proven true).
And no, the RC is not and has never been interested in changing nor admitting mistakes. They've outright said that they do not care what the majority of the community wants and would rather see the format die than change their philosophy (it's buried in one of the banlist discussion threads, forgive me if I don't dig it up to quote here). I can trust WotC to at least do the profitable thing, I can't trust RC to do anything but what they want to do.