Love IMO is the mix of all emotions with the same outcome of happiness.
What do I mean?
Love exists, if when your mad you can look at the other person and find happiness.
Love exists, when you are having a bad day and the other person is there and brings you happiness.
Do I believe in love? Far less in today's society, but I do believe it does exist.
Ok, I am not going to go back and read everything, just a few posts on the front page, and want to comment that any guy that hits a woman is a coward, and you are doing it to make yourself feel better for being superior to someone, if anything just subdue her by holding her, but don't strike.
I'm not saying you can only fight someone your equal strength, but for sure you don't hit a girl. Why? It's not about what rights we have in the world, it is about pure morality.
I train Brazilliian Jiu-Jitsu and also American Tracy Kenpo, and I don't have a problem sparring with a woman but then again, that's expected.
I'd convince him to come get stoned with us and get him so ****ing high that he wouldn't be able to feel his legs.
Seriously. Then we'd just end up parked, all muttering and giggling in the car at 5 AM. It's happened way too many times.
Sitting in the drivers seat, with keys in "reach" = DUI
I had this happen to me last summer, and I hid his keys, and somehow they found them. o.0 So, we basically tied him up. And drove him home.
You must have been horrible at hide and seek LOL.
Good places to put them are in drawers (if not in their house, people are less likely to go through drawers).
On top of fridge, between matresses (yes, everyone does this with stuff, but someone wouldn't look there). Tons of places a drunk person wouldn't look.. like an empty can of beer
Like it was said above, hide his keys, insist you are not sure where he put them.
Then put a little note in his pockets where he could find the keys, people have done this to me, and i've done to others.
As for becoming violent to me, I would have socked him in the jaw.. put him to sleep that way (I hate being disrespected esp. when trying to help a friend out, and yes I have done the above said before, and has never hurt a friendship).
I'm really suprised noone brought this up :/ but at least in UK it's a classic girl trick to tell boyfriend they are pregnant (or even go as far as to forget contraceptive pill on purpose) just to prevent a breakup .
I dont know your gf , but im just suggesting care is taken unless you know her better
However Good luck with your new life .
Whoops, should clear this up. I did call her my GF earlier, but in all actuality she is my Fiancee. We have been engaged for about a year now.
She wouldn't do the above said, and girls who do that are insane basket cases (I have had an ex do that to me before).
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wow, congrats!
Yes it's very difficult. But as long as you are willing to make the right sacrifices, things should not be impossible. Can your or her parents help at all? if so, they might want to know about it...might make a couple future grannies proud.
I also think you should do the right thing and marry her, but then that's me. Kids generally benefit if their parents are married, in all the relevant realms: social, economic, legal, societal, personal, and physical.
keep us up to date mkay?
Yeah, we make plenty of $$ to care for a child (between the 2 of us, I think we have a take home pay of about 4K / Month).
Both of our parents are supportive (we told them both) and yes both will help when we need (both of our parents are already gramp's).
As for a marriage standpoint, we agreed to NOT get married for the kid, but if we did split then we would both still be in "his/her" life, and if I could I would get 100% custody (but this is not on the front of our mind) working things out, and hopfully being able to stay together is what we would like (we both do love eachother you know).
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I was just trying to bring a bit of levity to the situation. Of course raising a child is back-breaking, man you guys can be sticks in the mud
Good luck, dad.
I already have a broken back LOL, so kid can't do that to me, Titanium Rods are hard to break
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Congradualations!
Thanks
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Gratz!
Good luck with the kid man, hope you and your girlfriend can get over the trouble your having and get to getting ready to have a kid.
We hope the same, Thanks for the support.
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Wow
Good luck.
Thanks a bunch, and WOW is right
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Yeah. Um...gl hf.
I would expect anything else from you bud
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Congrats. It will most likely be hard, but at the same time your helping a new life come into the world, and you will be there for it till the day you leave this earth. Incredibly cool if you think about it.
Yes, it is very cool. The first I heard about it, I freaked, I was like.. we have to do this, we have to do that, we have to .... now since i've known for 2 days, just take it in stride, make / go to the proper doctors appointments, and get ready for the little booger to come into the world (I hope it's a boy).
Congrats? From your tone, it doesn't sound like this is a wanted pregnancy. If you've been planning to have one (doubtful), then, congratulations! If not, give the child a future: send him for adoption (I'm assuming an abortion is out of the question from your tone).
There is no way in hell I would give him up for adoption.
It wasn't planned no, but that doesn't mean I won't give it my all.
Reason for my tone, it was in a bad time of my girls and mines relationship (we've been bickering / argueeing a lot).
So just wow factor.. it's really insane.. we go to docs on wed.
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Wild! I hope this turns out well for you. I'm sure it's not as hard as it looks
My buddy just had his first kid.. he said exactly the opposite
This reminds me of when the kid had the sheet of paper with CoK cards that were "taken" off the language conversion wheel.
The kid got in trouble, and begged and pleaded for all sites that obtained the info to take it off. Everyone laughed at the kid and thanked him for the scan of the page.
Now it just went up the totem pole, and hit the main sources IMO.
Like theexistant said, I would get real legal advice via an attorney.
A little old.. From June.. I'll post one from August soon
What do I mean?
Love exists, if when your mad you can look at the other person and find happiness.
Love exists, when you are having a bad day and the other person is there and brings you happiness.
Do I believe in love? Far less in today's society, but I do believe it does exist.
I'm not saying you can only fight someone your equal strength, but for sure you don't hit a girl. Why? It's not about what rights we have in the world, it is about pure morality.
I train Brazilliian Jiu-Jitsu and also American Tracy Kenpo, and I don't have a problem sparring with a woman but then again, that's expected.
JK.. Good Job Jay..
Sitting in the drivers seat, with keys in "reach" = DUI
You must have been horrible at hide and seek LOL.
Good places to put them are in drawers (if not in their house, people are less likely to go through drawers).
On top of fridge, between matresses (yes, everyone does this with stuff, but someone wouldn't look there). Tons of places a drunk person wouldn't look.. like an empty can of beer
Like it was said above, hide his keys, insist you are not sure where he put them.
Then put a little note in his pockets where he could find the keys, people have done this to me, and i've done to others.
As for becoming violent to me, I would have socked him in the jaw.. put him to sleep that way
Whoops, should clear this up. I did call her my GF earlier, but in all actuality she is my Fiancee. We have been engaged for about a year now.
She wouldn't do the above said, and girls who do that are insane basket cases (I have had an ex do that to me before).
Yeah, we make plenty of $$ to care for a child (between the 2 of us, I think we have a take home pay of about 4K / Month).
Both of our parents are supportive (we told them both) and yes both will help when we need
As for a marriage standpoint, we agreed to NOT get married for the kid, but if we did split then we would both still be in "his/her" life, and if I could I would get 100% custody (but this is not on the front of our mind) working things out, and hopfully being able to stay together is what we would like (we both do love eachother you know).
I already have a broken back LOL, so kid can't do that to me, Titanium Rods are hard to break
Thanks
We hope the same, Thanks for the support.
Thanks a bunch, and WOW is right
I would expect anything else from you bud
Yes, it is very cool. The first I heard about it, I freaked, I was like.. we have to do this, we have to do that, we have to .... now since i've known for 2 days, just take it in stride, make / go to the proper doctors appointments, and get ready for the little booger to come into the world (I hope it's a boy).
There is no way in hell I would give him up for adoption.
It wasn't planned no, but that doesn't mean I won't give it my all.
Reason for my tone, it was in a bad time of my girls and mines relationship (we've been bickering / argueeing a lot).
So just wow factor.. it's really insane.. we go to docs on wed.
My buddy just had his first kid.. he said exactly the opposite
Posts merged.
Furor
Last night found out my GF is pregnant.. I don't even know where to begin now..
BTW, I am 24 not a 14 year old MTG person like 2/3's of the board..
Jay is a pretty good guy I talk to him quite a bit.. Hope he can help you R_E
Edit: You should start a "Card Collection" for Darren or anyone to sell to help pay the Attorney Fees that will build.
The kid got in trouble, and begged and pleaded for all sites that obtained the info to take it off. Everyone laughed at the kid and thanked him for the scan of the page.
Now it just went up the totem pole, and hit the main sources IMO.
Like theexistant said, I would get real legal advice via an attorney.